This section deals with managing perceptions we have about our partners, and if you are experiencing challenges in your relationship, we encourage you to view your partner differently and learn to appreciate their presence in your life.
Key factor in this process is never to try CHANGE your partner, but find ways to perceive them differently. The method we use is the Art of Listening, really listening and putting yourself in their shoes.
We focus on how to create safety for your partner to relax and become who they truly are instead of trying to change themselves to please you.
This applies to all types of relationships, young, older, married, unmarried, same gender, opposite gender, mixed race etc.
Couple’s transformation sessions are preferably done face to face, especially the first 2 to 3 sessions. They are offered on a one-to-one basis with the couple, or in a workshop setting with other couples.
It is important to realize that when you love someone, you should let them be, and let them do what they want rather than force or coerce them to do what you’d like them to do. Let them do what makes them happy, because you will not have to carry the burden of having to make them happy.
Couples must also understand that relationships and marriages were never meant for happiness but rather for growth. You don’t believe me? Ask me how! If you are in a relationship, you have to work on it daily, even when all seems well, it’s part of the relationship system.
HOW WE DO IT
We help you to view your partner differently and learn to appreciate their presence in your life.
Accept and love your partner for who they are, not what you want them to be.
We have tools for all types of relationships, young and older couples, married and unmarried, same gender, opposite gender, same race, and different race.
We help you see your partner differently for mutual benefit.
WHAT YOU WILL GET FROM US
Appreciating your partner for whom they are without any need for them to change.
Understand that relationships and marriages were never meant for happiness but rather for growth.
Understand happiness comes from within not from your partner.
Communicate and understand each other’s differences.